Monday, August 28, 2006

Mama Ball Says

It's been six days since my mother-in-law passed away. This has been one of the most difficult weeks of my life, and there's more to be done. I took today off work, and tomorrow also, just so I can get my sanity restored a little. I haven't been sleeping well at night for the last few weeks anyway, and this morning I went to see my favorite doc for three or four nights' assistance. I think I just need to get myself in the habit of sleeping through the night, or at least give myself a break of a few nights where I really sleep so I can make it through going back to work on Wednesday and Jake's first day of kindergarten.
I realized last Thursday night that, at 37, I have become the de facto matriarch of this family. I've seen the job. I don't think I want it, but I don't think I have much choice in the matter.

Saturday, August 05, 2006

Mama Ball Says

Woo-hoo! Freya has returned from overseas, and has brought back a load of wonderful books, most of which we can't get yet here, like the new Artemis Fowl. I had three bags full to read,and I am really excited! I have to get busy on those. :) Book reviews will be forthcoming on those.
This week I read Caroline Cooney's latest, Hit the Road, which was fantastic. Great multi-generational read, with the teen protagonist managing her grandmother and her grandmother's friends on the way to a college reunion .. with a kidnapping, some theft and a lot of suspense -- who's the real bad guy and how do you know? Good, realistic twists. I loved it!
More excellent reads: Crackback, The Sixth Grade Nickname Game, and Ball Don't Lie. Very different levels and audiences, but all well written and good books, especially for boys. Can't wait to booktalk these!
I've been working on Jeanne DuPrau's Prophet of Yonwood, and it's looking good so far. Once that's done it's off and running into the Brit books ... and I have a LOT to read!

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Mama Ball Says

Well, it's midnight and I can't sleep! I think the last time I was this awake at this hour was when Sadie was tiny and had her days and nights screwed up for a bit. Got back about 45 minutes ago from NYC. Nic and Justin drove me home from New Rochelle which was where Nic had her truck parked.
I had the BEST time at Harry Carrie and Garp! Whoopi Goldberg introduced the program, and she was hilarious. Whoever wrote the script didn't run it by her much -- she kept making faces at the teleprompter and going off on her own tangents ... and finally she just looked at the audience and said "You know, sometimes you just have to skip over things!" Kathy Bates introduced Stephen King, and she was really funny too. Stephen King is a wonderful reader. He read the pie-eating contest scene from "The Body" (aka Stand By Me), and we were absolutely rolling! He was so much fun to listen to, especially with his asides and quick comments during the reading. Later, during the question session, he was aked "What scares you?" and his response was "Everything!" He also explained in a different answer that when he gets an idea for a story, it's "a red thread leading into a mousehole, and you have to carefully pull the thread out of the mousehole..." and the thread is your story, and you can't quite see where it's coming from or where it's going, but you just know you have to get to the end of it. He also said emphatically that "the story is the reward -- not the money!" John Irving addded onto that, saying he would have to check out the mousehole first and the thread and everything about the whole situation -- he has to plan everything before he writes, and then he rewrites everything.
I forget the actor's name who introduced John Irving, but I did recognize his face -- I'm just terrible with names. John Irving read the Christmas pageant scene from A Prayer for Owen Meany, and we were all rolling again! His rendition of Owen's voice was exactly the way I heard it in my head when I read the book: squeaky and high-pitched, but with a tinge of sarcastic attitude. One of the questions he got later was about the inspiration for his book The Fourth Hand, and he said it came from a comment that his wife made when they were watching the news and saw a story about a hand transplant. She said to him that if his hand went to someone else after he died, she's want to be able to visit it -- and then she went to bed and he stayed up thinking about it all night!
Jon Stwewart from the Daily Show introduced J.K. Rowling, and she read the scene from book 6 where Harry and Dumbledore use the pensieve to observe Dumbledore's going to the orphanage to get the young Voldemort to come to Hogwarts. One of the best questions for her afterward was "If Hermione were to look into the mirror of Erised, what would she see?" J.K. Rowling replied after a moment that she thought Hermione would see herself, Harry and Ron victorious over Voldemort, and also that she would be "entwined with another character whom I'm sure you can name."
It was wonderful -- there was a full house at Radio City, amounting to some 6,000 people on the absolute hottest day of the year so far. The stage sets were fun too -- each author had a rolling mini stage upon the stage that was set up with a large chair and some props appropriate to the author. Stephen King's chair was a heavy wooden thing that looked something like an electric chair with an afghan on it, and he had farm kinds of props -- wheelbarrow, etc. John Irving's set looked like a living room, with fake fireplace, giant leather chair, side table and antique-looking globe. J.K. Rowling's set of course had a throne-style chair on it, and the other pieces looked like they came out of a castle somewhere. The end q & a session was moderated by Soledad O'Brien.
It was wonderful to sit with 6000 other people who enjoy books and want to hear from their favorite authors! There were people from all over, including a woman from Shanghai who stood up to ask a question.
This was one of the most fun evenings I've had in the last year (other than the trip to Vegas!).

Mama Ball Says

Big night tonight -- going into the city with Nicole and friends to see An Evening with Harry, Carrie and Garp" at Radio City. It's JK Rowling, Stephen King and John Irving reading from their works and answering questions. They are raising funds for Doctors Without Borders and the Haven Foundation, and it should be really, really fun!